tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post112055400951273553..comments2023-11-05T19:00:41.878+08:00Comments on Along's Blog: I Just Want Her to be Happy and Safe...and Popular, God Damn It!Alonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04216763409428044080noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120720162261120952005-07-07T15:09:00.000+08:002005-07-07T15:09:00.000+08:00Alah... Little Miss B jeles tu... pasal your daugh...Alah... Little Miss B jeles tu... pasal your daughter is of course the cutest girl at the park ;)Kampung Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17181699084675534906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120718042066289562005-07-07T14:34:00.000+08:002005-07-07T14:34:00.000+08:00So, someone stands back and puts things in perspec...So, someone stands back and puts things in perspective and everything else falls into place. Dosn't matter who, because anybody can become a headless chicken when pissed off. That's what a family's for.LC_Tehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16286608835636454893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120714932423293242005-07-07T13:42:00.000+08:002005-07-07T13:42:00.000+08:00Krissy,Yes, you're right. Now that I've cooled dow...Krissy,<BR/><BR/>Yes, you're right. Now that I've cooled down a bit and had time to think it over, I maybe shouldn't have made such a big deal about it after all. The thing is...I KNOW what it's like being the odd one out. It hurt when it happened to me; it hurt even more seeing it happen to Dania.<BR/><BR/>I know Dania is gonna face this situation sooner or later, I just wish it was later. I guess now the best thing I can do for her as a parent is to teach her how to handle these kind of situations gracefully. <BR/><BR/>Yes, and I'm pretty sure you're right again. She will find great friends in school when the time comes. So far, all signs point to that. :DAlonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04216763409428044080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120684427666235322005-07-07T05:13:00.000+08:002005-07-07T05:13:00.000+08:00Ah, the pitfalls of projection.Honestly, in that s...Ah, the pitfalls of projection.<BR/><BR/>Honestly, in that situation, I would have just tried to let it go. If Dania wasn't having a problem with it, I would have let it go. <BR/><BR/>After all, the only things that are going to hurt her are the things she lets in to hurt her. If the little girl shouting that she didn't want to be her friend didn't hurt her, and she was happy to play anyhow, it might have been a good lesson to everyone how ignoring jerks sometimes actually solves the problem.<BR/><BR/>Dania is going to have a rough time in school at some point or another. I think that one of the greatest challenges as parents is to not over-dramatize or over-sympathise with their problems because of what we went through.<BR/><BR/>Just as we are entitled to be crushed that somebody doesn't like them or is mean, they are entitled to not be crushed, if they aren't.<BR/><BR/>I'd have probably waited to say something until my daughter came to me to ask why they didn't want to play. THEN I would tell her that they seem like smelly girls anyhow, let's go on the slide!<BR/><BR/>It's so hard not to project in those circumstances.<BR/><BR/>And obviously, the bitch stunk to high heaven and was blind, besides. Dania will have a great many friends.<BR/><BR/>I promise.Krissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07753338289610993937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120576563235473392005-07-05T23:16:00.000+08:002005-07-05T23:16:00.000+08:00Twinsmom: Your girls are experiencing the same sit...Twinsmom: Your girls are experiencing the same situation too? That's sad.<BR/><BR/>The beautiful thing about kids is that they don't discriminate. I was hpoing that I wouldn't have to face this situation with my kids until at least they started school.<BR/><BR/>Azalea: Yeah, I truned out ok, I guess. The thing is I learned at a very young age that I had to depend on my wits and humor, rather than my looks, to find me friends. Of course, there were those special few but kids back then could be rather cruel.<BR/><BR/>Yes, maybe next time I should try to say hi to Miss B's mom when I see her at the playground. See if the young imitates the old.Alonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04216763409428044080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120559204831999352005-07-05T18:26:00.000+08:002005-07-05T18:26:00.000+08:00Lucky for you Along, I didn't even get to utilize ...Lucky for you Along, I didn't even get to utilize the Agung birthday. The request was shot down...blurrgghhh...<BR/><BR/>Don't worry too much about your daughter growing up. U did ok, didn't u? I used to get shunned when i was little, they won't even share a plastic bag full of Vitagens but eventually i grew up and find good friends.<BR/><BR/>Probably you should have a look at little Miss B***'s mom. Mungkin kuah tumpah ke nasi agaknya heh hehAzaLeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06385933154539029929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120555700922375592005-07-05T17:28:00.000+08:002005-07-05T17:28:00.000+08:00Nutty Mama: Welcome!! So sad to hear your childhoo...Nutty Mama: Welcome!! So sad to hear your childhood days were lke that. I truly beleive childhood should be the BEST time of everyone's life. Coz then you grow up and have to have a stinking job, which sometimes just STINKS to high heavens. <BR/>Yes, I have faith that Dania will end up a nice person when she grows up, with a condition her parents don't freak out too much. Hehehe..<BR/>That Miss B really needed soemone to just yank her pigtails. HARD.Alonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04216763409428044080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8105183.post-1120555375675760432005-07-05T17:22:00.000+08:002005-07-05T17:22:00.000+08:00That reminds me of my childhood days. I faced the ...That reminds me of my childhood days. I faced the same thing. They used the same way to avoid me...uhuk uhuk. Sad huh!.But i can guarantee you she will end up being a nice person and that little Miss B will always continue being Miss B..heheheh...(talking through experience!!)Kiah Kardashianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13062391308318915002noreply@blogger.com